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You can't be serious all the time

Issue May/June 2016 By Robert W. Harnais

One of the events that I look forward to at the Massachusetts Bar Association is the Annual Dinner. This year was no different -- although this year I had the privilege of being the master of ceremonies. It was a great time, and it was even better to see the lawyers in attendance enjoy themselves and, for maybe even a short time, forget about the issues at the office. I've been to a number of events that have been nice, but, at times, stuffy. Ours is anything but stuffy.

As I was walking through the crowd I heard one young lawyer call it the "lawyer's prom," which I thought was a fitting name. All year long, we deal with serious issues of the bar. One night a year, we put cases and issues aside and just have fun, with the focus on hanging out with other lawyers and having a good time.

Throughout the year, we are proud to sponsor some of our affiliated bars, and it was great to see so many come out and support us at the Annual Dinner. You're an important part of our family. As always I have to give a shout out to the Massachusetts Association of Hispanic Attorneys (MAHA), which got me started on this road. People come from all parts of the state -- some in a limo, like the folks from the Hampden County Bar Association. (See, it is like a prom!) Not only was it a responsible idea, but I could tell that they were having a blast. It could have been the fact that when I first saw them, they were tailgating. I wish I could have joined them, but the emcee duties were calling (Jeff, Lisa and the rest of the gang, save me a seat for next year.)

It was also great to see so many young lawyers and law students in attendance. I was very impressed with the UMass Law School Student Bar Association, who all came together. (Thanks for allowing me to speak at your school this year.) These young lawyers and students are our profession's future, and you could feel the enthusiasm they bring. I know that the legal world will be in good hands.

This year's Annual Dinner had fun in droves, and there was plenty of funny as well. Keynote speaker Dennis Lehane's reflections on Boston had everyone in stitches. It was a perfect way to end the night.

Let's not forget it, and let's not wait until next year to remember to have more fun. Let our Annual Dinner be a reminder to take time to enjoy what we do -- and enjoy each other -- all year long. Our upcoming Summer Networking Series in Springfield (June 16) and Boston (July 14 and Aug. 18) offers a great opportunity to keep this camaraderie going.

Practicing law is a serious profession and a difficult job. We deal with clients who are often under tremendous pressure and stress, which ultimately lands on our shoulders. As we take on these cases we know that on the other side is a lawyer as equally, if not more, experienced who will as zealously represent their client as we represent ours. And though this is sometimes exciting, it is undoubtedly, at times, exhausting.

But events like our Annual Dinner remind us that we are members of a very special profession, and we should celebrate that fact. So let's commit to not taking ourselves so seriously, at least every once in a while. As my great friend and mentor the late Peter Muse always said to me: "You can't be serious all the time. Enjoy life!" Pete, thanks for the advice. I'll see you all at next year's prom!